[April Masini, your AskApril]

Don’t do it. You’re very clear about what you want for yourself. If you move her in with you because she wants it and you’re only about fifty percent on board, but are willing to go along, you’re going to be resentful when there are bumps in the road (at best) and bitter if things don’t go well and you feel trapped.

People are ready for different things at different times in life and there is no right or wrong, but there IS compatibility. If moving in with a boyfriend is a deal breaker for your girlfriend (you mentioned negative consequences if you don’t agree), then you’re not compatible and the relationship has run it’s course.

You’re very self aware and your feelings are age appropriate. Trust your instincts and take care of yourself here. If you’re with the right woman at the right time, you’ll both be on the same page.

I hope that helps. 😀 Let me know how things go and follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 🙂