Since my last reply I’m very happy to report that I got a job and my life is starting to get on track. He commited to a relationship with me on his own. Didn’t pressure him or nothing.. kinda sat back and let things move they way the wanted. Hes opening up more and more everyday and I couldn’t ask for more. As far as my child goes, shes only met him a couple times.. but shes just turned 1 year old. We both agreed we want to get get to know each other before bringing my child more into the relationship. Its more for him.. he wants to get more attached to me.. than being attached to my child and something happens to where we stop our relationship and he can’t see my lil girl. Understandable 🙂
Hes really making an effort on our issues as we both are and when he came out and told me we was ready to call us “offical” I sighed in relief. Thanks for the advice you guys. And its a big lesson.. patience=time.
