[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’ve been a little coy about gender, so I’m guessing you’re a woman in a lesbian relationship and your partner has been cheating on you with another woman. Did I get that right?

If your partner has been cheating on you for ten years — what are you getting out of the relationship? It’s got to be very hard to trust someone who cheats on you over a long period of time, but if you stay in the relationship, you’ve basically consented to the terms. 😳

You mention that you have no car, job or education, but you’re clearly bright enough to get a job, so I hope you won’t feel that you have to stay for the financial benefits you have, but instead, will use this opportunity to create a new life for yourself.

I think you can do better and find someone who WON’T cheat on you over the course of a decade. 😕

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