Well, Jamie, you’ve asked several questions between your two posts so I’m going to try and condense my answer and concentrate on how to achieve your goal. You say that you want to stop having one night stands and start having actual relationships? Okay…. Here’s what I suggest you do.
First, you should figure out who the woman of you dreams actually is — meaning the type of girl you want to date and have a relationship with. Not the kind of girl you would have a one night stand with, but an actual on-going relationship. ( I strongly suspect that there’s a difference between the kind of girl you’d hook-up in a bar with for one night and one that you can imagine spending six months — or the rest of your life with. Right?) Now, if your ideal woman is Pamela Anderson, you’ve got a problem because there’s only one of her. But if it’s someone with a figure like Pamela Anderson, who’s successful with a sweet disposition, a job in the arts, a single mom (or a single person without kids) — we can begin to piece together a real person
