[April Masini, your AskApril]

Wow, you got some great advice from [b]Jamielynn[/b] and [b]Kitkat620[/b]. And it seems like you’ve changed your tune from yesterday’s post of desperation to today’s post of anger.

My advice is to get your closure by writing a letter with all your feelings in it — not giving him a piece of your mind in what will surely be an ugly showdown fueled by anger. You don’t have to mail the letter — you can burn it up or save it, but at least write it to get your feelings out.

For future, you need to understand that the chaos in your life was not attractive to this guy. Unless your life is in order, it’s hard to be available to be in a healthy relationship. You have to respect his reasons for not wanting to be with you — being emotionally drained is not sexy! 😕 And he saw you as someone who drained him emotionally.

Use this breakup to learn how to be more successful next time around. Read Think & Date Like A Man (it’s a nice change from university textbooks!), and understand what it is that men want and how to get them to stay with you! Here’s the link for the book: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

I hope that helps, and that you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].