[April Masini, your AskApril]

From this conversation and your post, what I get is that you’re wasting your time with a guy who isn’t interested in you. 😕 When you said you’ve been “talking” to a guy for a few months, I’m not sure if you mean online or in person, but either way, if he hasn’t asked you out on a real life date by now, you should stop spending any more time with him.

In addition, if he said he’s not interested in you any more, take him seriously and move on. Don’t try and make him take it back. The conversation you transcribed really shows a guy who’s apathetic about you at best, and trying to shake you at worst. You’re desperately trying to hold onto something that isn’t there.

I’m sorry, but this conversation is such clear evidence that you’re in a no win, go nowhere situation. You seem to really want a relationship, so find a guy who wants to be with you!

I hope that helps.

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