[April Masini, your AskApril]

First of all, it’s really hard to tell who is saying what since you didn’t include any attribution. Second of all, in answer to your questions, no, he doesn’t think you’re hot. He thinks you’re possibly available — that’s it. And the reason he doesn’t want to hook up with you any more is because from his point of view, you’re too much trouble.

He isn’t interested in a relationship. He just wants to use someone for sex and then move on. You’re trying to use sex to get an emotional payoff, and he’s on to you. If you just want to be used for sex, which is very sad, then stop giving him a hard time and just have sex with him — clearly I don’t think this is a good idea, but I’m trying to help you understand what’s going on. If you’re looking for a relationship with this guy or for him to care about you, you’ll never get it. If you’re looking for a relationship with a man who WILL care about you, then you should start valuing yourself, and learning what it is that men want and how to get that guy. You can read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], for some hard core help — which is what I strongly recommend for you!

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