Being shy is something you overcome by testing the waters and realizing that with each step you take — you didn’t faint, and you’re still standing and breathing! The flip side of being shy is that you’re just thinking about yourself too much. 😕 If you start thinking about others, too, you’ll realize that other people have insecurities and are shy just like you, so the person you’re approaching may also be shy, and by approaching her and starting a conversation, you may just be doing her a favor. So it’s not just about you!
You can tell if someone is ready to go out with you because they say yes when you ask! It’s that simple. Usually women will show signs of liking you — they’ll smile at you, hold your gaze, light up when you talk to them and laugh at your jokes. If all of these things are happening, then you can assume it’s all systems go, and you should ask her for a date.
I hope that helps!
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