I guess you read my topic before. I am in the same situation as you. I am thinking of whether its best to lower my standards to actually feel love. As explained on here before, I have been compared to Daniel Craig(bond Star), Frank Lampard (famous soccer player in England where I live all the girls love himn) but still I cannot find a girlfriend. My last proper girlfriend was 8 years ago. Im not sure whether you should lower your standards just to feel love as im sure you wont be happy with the person in the long run and the other person will get hurt, although I have thought about this many times. I think April has some great advice so lets see what she has to say first? I do sympathise with you though as I am in the same boat as you.