I’m going to guess that you are the wife and your husband is the one who is texting a co-worker during his family vacation. Your questions have to do with the motivation of the co-worker. They really should be about your husband. It’s always an instinct for women to attack the other woman, but it’s a mistake. The real problem is between you and your husband. This other woman is just a symptom. I know that’s probably hard to hear because you want to lash out, but it’s a mistake to contact, engage or spend much time thinking about this other woman. You need to focus on your marriage.
Figure out why your husband isn’t more interested in his family or his marriage. Are there any things YOU can do differently to interest him in the marriage? Shift your focus and see if things don’t get back on track that way. 😉
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