[April Masini, your AskApril]

When you discuss your options with your boyfriend, what does he suggest you do? Since you’ve talked about having children together and moving in together, is there a timetable — or is this just fantasy talk? Does he want you to go for a year? A lot of your decision hinges on whether he is ready to commit to you or not. How does he feel that you fit into his medical school plans?

Sacrifice is part of any relationship, but before you make a sacrifice, make sure it’s worth it. The trick about taking a good risk is thinking through the what ifs. If you give up this job in Korea and then things don’t work out with your boyfriend, will you think you took a good risk? If you go to Korea and then lose him will he really have been “the one”?