Hi,
First of all I want to say that your site has some great information and I think it’s awesome that you dedicate your time to helping clueless souls like myself haha. However, onto my question:
My boss approached me at work a few weeks back and told me his wife works with a cute single girl and he thinks we would be great match. I agreed to meet her and he gave us each others email address’s to correspond with. After a few emails it turns out we did have a few things in common and we set up a date to meet each other. The date went great, we talked, laughed and I really felt a “spark” between us. When I paid for the meal she mentioned that she will pay the next time we went out so I felt pretty good that the date was going well, and even at the very end of the date we hugged and I asked if she wanted to meet again – she accepted. I would have asked for her number at this point but she already gave it to me before we met (in case we couldn’t fine each other at the restaurant). I felt the date went flawless, and couldn’t have hoped for anything better. However, 2 days later she emails me and tells me that she doesn’t think we have enough in common and that we shouldn’t see each other again. At this point I was very confused at what went wrong so I called her the next day and we talked for a few minutes over the phone. She told me she knows what she’s looking for and just wasn’t feeling it that night so I accepted her decision and decided to move on.
It’s been nearly a week now since then and I’m started to get this feeling that I should contact her again and tell her I think if she gave me another chance she would see that we really are compatible, that I’m a fun person to hang out with, and a very easy person to get along with. I felt a spark that night and can’t just let that slip away so easily. A part of me is telling me not to do it because it sounds crazy and I just need to move on, but another part of me is saying if I want it… go for it. At the very least I want to know why such a great date turned into a rejection without any warning whatsoever.
I’m a 23 year old guy that (embarrassingly) has never had a girlfriend. Maybe the thought of finally finding a girl, then having it all slip away is just leaving me distraught and I’m not sure how to deal with it.
Any advice would be appreciated! 🙂
Thanks
