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I find myself in a situation that’s interesting.I’m back on the dating scene after a divorce, its been almost a year now.I’ve had that meaningless sex relationship and got it out of my system.Still not looking to marry again or play house.Iv’e been dating two different women and I kinda like them both.One is a very busy RN and has little time to devote to dating.She’s very attractive to say the least.The other is a professional woman too.Her son is almost grown and she has more free time.She’s not as pretty as the other but still very attractive in her own right.She cooks and brings food over,we go out and laugh and dance,drink be merry.She’s fun to be with and very loving and affectionate.She isn’t aware of the other at the moment.She,like me doesn’t want anything way too serious.Sometimes she acts as if she’s really into us,other times kinda touch me not.
The RN knows about her and wants me to quit seeing her,although we’re just dating whenever she can.Says it would help us be closer.I like her too,she’s fun and really classy and beautiful.
I’m not ready to just ditch woman-x just because she thinks it the right approach.I’m flattered at her jealousy but there is no reason to not date both of these women until It reaches the point where I have to choose one over the other.I like options, if I toss one for the other and it doesn’t work out, I’d regret it.I know at some point this will have to end.What gives with this rush to choose? Why is woman-y so flim-flam at times, so hard to glean just what she’s thinking? I have asked, and I get a generic response.The majority of the time she acts as if we’re almost a unofficial couple and we’re just moving slow towards it.Maybe she senses the presence of another.I know she has male friends and I’ve told her to date who she wants, I’m not trying to control her.
I don’t know if she does or not.We see each other weekends and may have one date during the week.Usually text each other every day.
Me having to decide between these two outstanding ladies is tough.I know there are worse problems to have.It just happened this way.I didn’t really know the RN was that into me,that’s why I began dating woman-x.Or maybe she’s trying to teach me a lesson or something?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

[quote]What gives with this rush to choose? [/quote]

Playing the field is a good idea if you’re not ready for a commitment. But the reason you’re getting “the rush” from one of the two women is because you’re both wanting different things. She’s wanting a committed relationship; you’re not. She’s trying to press you into her way of thinking, or a decision of some sort.

[quote]Why is woman-y so flim-flam at times, so hard to glean just what she’s thinking?[/quote]

Perhaps the reason you’re having trouble reading this woman is that she knows this isn’t a serious relationship for you, so she’s trying to play her cards close to her chest in order not to get hurt by investing her emotions in you and the relationship.

Take your time, since you’re new to dating after a divorce, and learn from what happened so you can make the next serious relationship you enter into, that much better for your new knowledge. 😉

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Thanks April! 😉

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome! Happy Valentine’s Day!!

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