Together 7 years. Last year we called it quits and took 4 months off. He cried for me to come home finally I did. For the first 3 months back together was amazing. We got engaged and he treated me so much better. Then come 5th month he has decided to go back to his old ways. Basically my issue is he gets free time he says he want to be with his friends. Days go by and I never get any alone time with him. So I tell him. He then tells me I live a boring miserable life an anything I like is stupid. Then I said I wanted out so he threw my belonging outside even though we own house together. He said when I said I’m moving out he was helping me. Next day its back to I love you like nothing happened. I asked what happened yesterday and he goes you were being a dumb bit**. So after all this I moved out again. He then decided to post on his face book a bunch of things to get people to take his side. (He’s 30 btw) He called me 100 times that day an every name in book. Next day he’s calling me asking me to come home. He then wrote on his face book an apology to me. He has been telling me how he still loves me. We recently went to his brother’s wedding. And a friend saw me texting my nephews and decided to tell my fiancé that I was cheating on him texting other guys. So not true. But he then decided to tell everyone there I cheated on him and I was a dumpy cun*. Next day he says he shouldn’t listen to other people. How can one minute he be crazy and then next day it’s like hey we can fix and make this work just come home. I don’t get it. Will he ever change or will it always be battle?
He will never change, and it will always be this way. 😳 After years of dating him, you already know this. 😉 Time to move on and find someone who is compatible with you. He isn’t.
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