Hi People
please can you offer me some advise
i recently messaged a a girl I really find attractive who works in my local store through facebook. Ive known her name about 8 months because of her name tab she wears at work (Lisa), but I dont think she knew my name, and when ever ive visited the store we always had pleasent chats and alot of eye contact with her and big smiles. ive often visited the store just knowing she is there so i can catch a glimpse of her, and this young lady has a little daughter, but ive never seen her with a bloke so presumed she was single.
the message was only brief one through face book and said ” hi, i just want to introduce my self, your very beautifull , hope ive not offended you”.
i never got a reply back, this was in november of 2011
about a week after id sent the message i bumped into a work collegue of hers so decided id mention the girl I really liked whose called Lisa. I asked her what was the score with her and did she know if if this girl had a boyfriend or not
to my dilemma she told me the girl I like was bisexual and was seeing another girl.
“now dont get me wrong im not predjudice in any way shape or form and dont think there is anything wrong with her sexuality” it is her choice.
so i didnt return to this shop again, and decided to move on (reason i didnt return was i felt a bit embarresed- im also very shy so there was prob a bit of that too)
ive recently seen this girl I like with her girlfriend (from a distance) so it sort of confirms she is in a relationship, but ive not been back to the shop or spoke since
any ways i recently bought a car at begining of January, so my time to depart to work these days is much later
I came out of my house about 2 weeks ago and this girl was walking past my house with her daughter on the school run. its first time ive seen her on a morning since using the car, so I turned round and pretended i hadnt seen her and was busy in the garden.
anyways i saw her again another morning and thought i shouldnt ignore her so said hello and smiled and she gave me a real nice smile back and said hi.
with that out the way i now leave for work every morning at the same time 8.27 and sure enough at that exact time she is passing my door with her daughter every morning.its almost like she wants to see me, ive even held back in the house and peered through the curtain to see if im not imagining it, and she makes a point of comming past my house at the time im leaving for work 8.27 by my digital phone clock. her school walk is a good mile from where she lives(my house is about the middle of her journey) and i find it difficult to think its a coincidence that she passes at that exact time. this has been occuring a good 3 weeks now
I just want some advise , should i act on this or move on, i really am attracted to her and can handle the fact she is or has been sexually curious, and i wonder with her having a daughter if she is also interested in men to some degree.
id of though if she didnt want to see me shed adjust her time slightly so she didnt pass my house when i was leaving
please help and give me some views.
and thanks to all who took the time to read this
best regards
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