[Anonymous]

So…… Guess I was a slow starter and was always too embarassed to tell people i was dating i’m not good at kissing so just always said I don’t like kissing. Never kissed anyone til I was 20 and it was never amazing. I also don’t let a lot of people get close to me. I know it’s weird but how am I supposed to tell a guy I really like that I’m just not very good at kissing. I know i’m not, so I don’t want to give him the worse kiss of his life cause i really do like him. I’m just not good at that kinda stuff. We’re great friends now and we both want more, I’m just too embarassed and don’t want to screw things up! Thanks for you advice.

[ccad]

If he really does want to take things further then he shouldn’t care at all that your not a good kisser. I mean the only way to get better, is practice. You should tell him that you just haven’t really had the experience before (or something else like that). He will understand. Not being a great kisser is not that big of a deal and he will understand that.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

First of all, it would help to know your age. If you never kissed anyone until you were 20 and now you’re 50, that would be a different story than if you never kissed anyone until you were 20 and now you’re 21. So let me know your age.

Second of all, you should never tell someone who hasn’t kissed you that you’re a bad kisser. If you are, they’ll find out. And if they like you, they’ll want to try it some more. You can learn a lot about kissing by being in the moment and feeling what your partner is doing and responding. Bad kissing is non-responsive kissing. Good kissing is being sensitive and responsive and allowing your kisses to reflect your feelings.

So allow your friend to take your friendship to the next level, and when he goes in for the kiss, be in the moment and don’t sell yourself short by assuming you’re a bad kisser or worse, telling him you are before he’s even made his move.

[Danica Danna]

It’s okay not to be a good kisser at the age of 20. You can learn to kiss the moment that your partner is doing and responding. Good kiss is being responsive and allow your kisses to reflect your feelings. This will automatically absorb by your lips with emotion.

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