[sara1972uk]

I’m 41 and I can see that men of my same age or older feel more attracted by younger women than me!Even though I don’t think to be a “cougar” (I hate that word) I started having a look at an online dating website called toyboywarehouse.com since a friend of mine have suggested me and I’m actually in touch with a 24 years old guy!We are having such a fun together and even though the age gap, he makes me feel younger than older men whom actually prefer 18s girls do!I’ve widely improved my self-awareness with him!!!I can say aloud now:I’m only 41, I’m not so old LOL!!!:)))Btw my resolutions for 2012 is not to find my truelove as I guess I’ve already found it, I just need to find the courage to introduce him to my family!!!I’m sure they will not accept that he is 17 years younger than me!How can I manage this?How can I face up with their ancient ideas?Any advice?I also got a big problem!!!My biological watch is going on but he doesn’t want any children for the time being…🙁xx

[April Masini, your AskApril]

An age gap doesn’t have to be a problem at all. But wanting children is a compatibility issue that is a deal breaker — especially because you’re 41 and your biological clock has an alarm that should be shattering the sound barrier right about now.

If your boyfriend says he doesn’t want children, and you do, my advice is find someone who does and don’t waste any precious time if you’re planning on having children biologically. Otherwise, adoption is a great option — but not with someone who doesn’t want kids, period.

Resolve this, first, before you start introducing him to anyone in your family.

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