I went to high school with this girl, she graduated top of our class. We talked back in HS but never hung out or anything in fact i didnt like her much back then. but now i live below her in an appt. complex for college, i study chem and she studies bio. she dated my roommate for 4 years in HS but now they broke up over a yr ago. Lately she has been hanging out with me alot and has came out of her shell more since school. We share the same best friend and now she has been sending alot of signals. She follows me around everywhere during parties, i’ve helped her get her grade in ochem to passing and she tells me how she couldn’t thank me enough, she has been having pretty deep convo’s with me i can tell she trusts me very well, and she always brags about me. She now invited to dinner tomorrow with our best friend so now things are getting better. However she has been flirting with my other buddy james (he is a charmer and has a gf), she likes him but says she would never do anything with him, idk tho, she told me how she didn’t want him but she acts the opposite. However i am really falling for her and everything keeps gettin better except for james. O and she told our BF that she really needs someone right now, because she needs closure and comfort. SO my Q now is should i make a move next, can a girl really like a guy but flirt with another guy at times nearby?
I cant mention everything and im sorry this is long but things have been more than great between me and her, its just this one little problem.