[miss_smiles]

There is this guy that I have liked for a long time and we have been work colleagues in the past and recently. He is an amazing guy and there is nothing you could fault about him he is perfect! We would share the same intray (he had one but kept putting his stuff in mine none the less) He would borrow money from my wallet and leave me little notes saying I borrowed x amount will give it to you tomorrow then first thing next day he would front up with the money and one of my favourite drinks. After a little while he realised we lived about 10 minutes apart so he started driving me home after our shifts which was always my favourite time of the day because we would really get a chance to get to know eachother, we would laugh and listen to our music. After a while we started getting opposite shifts and for a while we didn’t see much of each other then one day I decided to stay back after my shift to hang around for his shift so I could spend some time with him. He seemed to not mind perhaps even enjoyed it as after a while we got it down to a fine routine. My boss would tell me to sign off, I would do so and go hang around in the canteen until he left then I would go back up and would hang around with him whilst he did his shift. One day I was leaving work and I went to say goodbye to him and he said “so i will see you tomorrow.” I said “oh, I’m not working tomorrow” he replied “I know. So I will see you tomorrow” and gave me a cheeky smile. I went home that night and wasn’t sure what to do..Did he want me to come in and see him at work or was he really only joking? I took a chance and went in and he didn’t seem surprised to see me and said hey you’re here! We spent the next three hours laughing and talking about all sorts. He buys me my favourite drinks and I buy him his and we would leave them in each others intray. One night I didn’t need a lift from him as i had already organised getting home so he drives out of the car park and parks infront of the steps where I was sitting and rolls down the window, puts on some music and starts talking to me. I was like what are you doing, I don’t need a lift remember? He said he knew and that he just wanted to wait with me! 🙂 So all of this sounds great and promising but heres the thing. We went out for drinks one night and he said theres this family party going on at a local pub do you want to stop by with me so i said ok. Everyone I talked to there assumed I was his girlfriend and I didn’t know what to say but the thing is he didn’t correct them. He didn’t say yes but didn’t say no. I have now left that job but he is still there and was worried we night get out of touch..I want to make a move but should I? Do you think he likes me truely? Or is he just a “nice guy” being a “nice guy”?

Thanks.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Do not make a move. There are a couple of reasons why, and if you read Think & Date Like A Man, which I strongly recommend for you based on your post, you’ll have a much better understanding how to win men over. Here’s the link for the book: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. When YOU make the first move, you take the opportunity away from him, and you DON’T want to do that. Men LOVE to chase women and win them over and if you’re doing the chasing, he can’t. 😳 So don’t ask him out. Another good reason not to make a move is that you’ll never know if he cares enough about you to date you or if he’s just doing what comes easily. 😕 If a man asks you out on a date, he’s interested in you. If he doesn’t, he’s not that into you. Knowing the truth can be painful — but it’s incredibly valuable. So again, don’t ask him out.

He does like you, but the real questions are: Does he want to date you? and Does he want a girlfriend? If you do nothing, you’ll find out!

I hope that helps. I know you like him so much you want to ask him out yourself, but don’t. It may feel good at first, but it won’t lead to a good outcome. 😳

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[miss_smiles]

Thank you for your advice. I really really really like him as in he could be the one. You know, when you just know. Anyway he actually got in contact with me a couple of days ago asking if i wanted to join him for a drink when he is not so busy at work which unfortunately wont be until next month but I am very glad that he wants to see me and I shall take your advice and I will let him come to me.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re welcome!

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