[Simp87]

I have posted on here previously about my issues with my boyfriend. Well, I have now decided to end things. However, he manipulative and very insecure. What is the best way to break up with him. What should I say?

[AskApril Masini]

I’m not sure what your situation is — if you post here a lot, it’s very helpful if you keep all your posts together, by simply pressing on the “reply” button for your last post, and then we can all see the history of your relationship in one place to comment. 😀

Normally, a break up is best done in person and is very clear and respectful. If you’re sure that it’s over, be clear about that when you end it, and be gracious in thanking him for the time together. 😉

Good luck. 😀

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[Simp87]

This was my post regarding my issues with him.[quote]I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is really sweet and would do anything for me. But the problem is his immature teasing. He deliberately bugs me about things that he know really upset me. I’ve talked to him about this dozens of times, even given him an ultimatum. Nothing seems to change. He says he respects me and doesn’t do it to hurt me. He’s “just joking” or “He forgot” that I told him that I’m sensitive about a certain issue. He has no other friends, and is quite insecure. He talks about getting married but I can’t marry a man whom I feel like I can’t trust. I’m thinking since he’s so insecure, this might his way of making himself feel in control and secure.[/quote]

He’s not the type of person that would be very good with a face to face break up. Since he’s very manipulative and I’m a sensitive person I know he would make me feel so guilty I would end up taking him back. I know I can’t be in this relationship anymore. I feel it’s preventing me from moving forward with my life.

[AskApril Masini]

Please go to your original posting on this subject in this forum and ask any follow up questions there by pressing the reply key and adding your questions or coments.

That way everyone here can see the whole story in one place! 😀

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