[angel2265]

Hey,
So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and half now. Our relationship has been going very smoothly up until this past month. I was confused if I still loved him or not, my mind was a mess and I broke up with him over a week ago. As soon as I did that it didn’t take me long to realize that I made a mistake and he took me back with open arms. Everything has been great since then. Two days ago he went to a party without me. I went over his house the next day and he told me that he cheated on me at the party with a girl that has been wanting him for a long time (I know her). He said it was a huge mistake and that he loves me and has no idea why that happened. I was so furious and left and told him it was over. Now for the past two days he has been calling me and texting me (i have barely answered them) saying that he found out that his drink was spiked with some date rape drug and he slept with the girl against his will. He said that she was sober and took advantage of him. He is swearing to this and is begging me to believe him. I don’t know if I can, even if he was drugged he still had sex with her and I can never look at him the same again. Do you think he is telling the truth or is it all bs to get me back? I need some serious advice!

[Ask April Masini]

If he was drugged and sexually assaulted, then he needs to call the police and report the crime. What he claims happened to him is dangerous, and if he doesn’t do something about it, and speak up to the police, other people may be victimized by this woman, too.

I would urge him to do the right thing and report what happened to him to the authorities so that they can investigate and arrest the woman who committed this crime against him, and then press charges.

If he’s not willing to do the right thing, and he still uses this excuse of being drugged for having cheated on you, then I think you have your answer about whether or not he’s telling the truth.

Good luck! 🙂

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