The last time i spoke on the phone to my boyfriend was this past monday, I could tell he was intoxicated ( he is a daily drinker!), when I asked him how is his day went and if he had worked , he really did not respond! He was acting different and on the disrespectul side a little. He asked for me to come over but i declined ( it was after midnite) , he kept asking me why I would not come over and I responded that if it was not for me to text him first , he probably would have not called me that night anyhow. After the argument about me not coming over, he replied : I dont care anyway! Which led me to hang up on him as i was getting upset and hurt by his behavior! ..Then total silence …until Friday! I finally calmed down and since i had not heard from him in 4 days , I decided to text him. The text was not long , i did apologize for hanging up and told him how i really felt about him, the fact that i knew he had some issues with his drinking, his unhappiness in life( he went from making good $ to barely making it) and that i would let him have his space so he can sort out his life but that my door would always be opened when he is ready! He responded to my text by saying that he would call me later on that night!… The call never came through! …And here we are saturday night and still havent heard from him!! What should i think???…. This guy chased me for 3 months before we ever went on a date. Then, we saw each other everyday up until then. He even said he loved me! Discussed plans for the future! Always saying he liked me so much because even thought he does not have anything , i still gave him a chance!! I was starting to fall for him and now he is ignoring me!! What is the deal?? Can someone please advise me on that matter?? I am quite confused!! ❓ I thank you in advance for taking the time to read me!
