I have a situation that I just cannot seem to overcome but it is still very new to my relationship with my boyfriend I have been with for about 7 months now. In February, I had to go to Vegas for work for 1 week. When I was out of town I worked long days and hours and my boyfriend was giving me a hard time about me not talking to him enough on the phone…we fought a little bit here and there and in fact I even lost sleep making my job harder to do and I was tired for work because he was blowing up my phone while he was getting drunk. It was as if he could not handle me being away from him. He also had trust issues about what I was going to do in vegas and acted like he did not trust me. When I returned home everything was fine until about a week after I was home he gotten into a fight after drinking with his friend all day and ended up going to jail. While he was in jail I found out from his sister that he was texting his brothers ex girlfriend asking her to have sex with him. She declined his offer though so I give respect to her for that. I was very hurt when I found this out and also a little distrubed by the fact that he wanted to sleep with his brothers ex. I don’t think he would have told me this and I would not have found out if it wasnt for his sister telling me. I broke up with him and after a couple weeks when he was out of jail he was begging me to be with him and said that he loved me and nothing ever happened and he did not cheat on me. I do love him and care about him so wanted to give it a try and work things out. We are together but when his brother comes to visit and talks about his ex (because he still loves her) it brings back the memory of my boyfriend wanting to sleep with her. Then we will argue about it but he will not talk about it and can’t give me an answer as to why he wanted to cheat on me with her. I feel that if he can’t give me an explanation then I will never be able to get over it. I found out that he actually slept with another one of his brothers ex girlfriends also which is sick to me. It’s as if he is in some sort of sick competition with his brother or something. I don’t know what to do because this makes me unhappy and i’m trying real hard to get over it. Makes me feel like he is not that into me and he is not as attracted to me and has caused trust issues and low self esteem for me.
