I had a problem two years ago that involved two women. When I met the first woman I felt so incredible. To me it can only be described as love. We were dating for two weeks when another woman came into my life who I felt the same way towards. In other words, I fell in love with two women.
The first woman found out that I met the second woman through a friend, so we broke it off. So I then started to date the second woman who broke it off because I went romantic and she was looking for something casual.
Just a side note. I am totally for the casual dating thing as I believe people commit to someone too fast, which means they are married with children by the third date. That does not much time to figure out if this person actually is that perfect person for me. However, everyone should be up front and honest with their dating intentions so someone does not get heartbroken when they find out the person does not want to commit to you.
Anyways… Back to my story… So I was fine with both of them leaving me, but I couldn’t help think that this thing called love was telling me to go after one of them, but I didn’t know who to go too.
So I came up with a novel idea that didn’t go over to well, which was that I would let them decide. I told them that they should meet each other, as they were both incredible people and they would be best friends. I knew that one woman was bisexual and the other made hints that she was too, so I said that they might like each other.
In my mind, if they liked each other and felt the same love that I felt for them, then we could actually be in a closed polygamous relationship together. However, if they didn’t, then I asked just to tell me who I should go after and I’ll pursue a monogamous relationship with them.
Win-Win-Win for everyone, right?
Like I said. It didn’t go over to well…
What are your thoughts?
