I have this guy acquaintance that I’ve known for a couple years. Well, last month on his birthday, he invited me to come and hang out with him and his other friends, so I did. We ended up going back to his place and slept together. After that weekend, he texted me throughout the week here and there, but it was mostly just normal, casual conversation with occasional flirtations. Since that weekend, we’ve gone out with each other with our other friends, not on a one-on-one date, and have slept together pretty much every weekend since that night. And he continues to text me throughout our week every week.
My question is, does he want to commit or does he want to keep this casual? The sex is always really intimate and isn’t like just “hook-up sex” if that makes sense. And the last time I slept over, he took me out to breakfast to his favorite cafe and afterwards gave me a kiss goodbye. I guess I’m confused because he hasn’t officially asked me out on a “date” and he hasn’t expressed any feelings or lack there of to me at all, but he acts like he’s really into me.
Is he just being cautious or is he just the nicest user ever!? I have no clue and I’ve never had this dilemma before.
I’m not quite sure how to approach him and ask him what the heck is going on, but I want to know if I should just forget about him and move on, or if this is worth pursuing.
