[breanna]

Okay, so I broke up with this guy a year ago but recently I decided the reasons for breaking up were ill thought of, and we both agreed that we missed each other and wanted to try again. I made him a scrapbook full of pictures of us, memories from dates, lyrics that remind me of him etc. and he loved it. The problem is, he has a girlfriend. They’ve only been dating for two months so I’m not really concerned, as we’ve talked about how he isn’t over me and things aren’t as good with her and he knows they could be with me. I’ve given him space and not talked bad about this girl, and he seemed to be really thinking about breaking up with her.

Here’s the thing: she’s pregnant. She told him a couple days ago, and apparently she’s getting an abortion. The problem is that now he doesn’t want to break up with her because she’ll think he’s just dumping her because she’s pregnant and that just isn’t the case. A couple of his friends know about the abortion. She’s getting the abortion in a couple weeks, but in the mean time, I’m wondering how I can support him? What can I do to make this easier for him? He already cheated on her with me, but I want to make this as easy a transition for him as possible, from here on in.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

First of all….. he’s having unprotected sex with at least her (she’s pregnant!) and maybe you. You should be worried about sexually transmitted diseases. So you need to have a serious talk with him about this, as well as being very careful yourself. 😕

Next, you shouldn’t be discussing his pregnant girlfriend with him at all. It’s just complicating things further. If he wants to play the field and date other women, you should be sure you don’t invest too much in this relationship. But if you do want to continue dating him, don’t turn into his mother by taking care of him. You should focus on being a girlfriend. 😉

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