Hey I need some help understanding a situation, I’m not good at explanation so please bear with me:
I know this girl for about 5 years now since we were both in college, we have dated in your second year and she told me that I was the first guy she dated more than once lol. It was really great getting to know her and seeing her, we both get smiles when we saw each other.
We had to stop seeing each other because school was getting very hard for me and I wanted into to put most of my focus there and she agreed, however we kept talking on phone for many months.
Two summers ago for some reason she told me that we were talking to each other too much and that we need to stop. I though she wanted to see someone else or meet new people, so I respect her and respected her wishes, the problem was that my close family member got terminally ill and I had to leave the country to take care of the family business. I tried to tell her but she never answered her phone nor email for 2 weeks and I though that she never wanted to talk to or have anything to do with me so i left without trying again.
I spent 8 months out of the US taking care of family business and had no contact with her until the day I came back and checked my Facebook mail and saw that she was worried she could not get into contact with me.
I surprised her with a call and I started working on things slowly telling her I was sorry for what had happen.
She recently invited me to her family weekend event and we both agreed that we had a very good time and I was one of the most memorable time we had.
She still to this day won’t let it go of what happened even though I promised that I won’t happen again, making me feel as if I was the bad guy in all of this when she was the one that said we should not talk anymore.
I still have feelings for her and want us to be together again but I have a hard time expressing myself.
Is there anything more I can do to get back in her good graces?
