The most amazing thing about AskApril is her “Tactical Wisdom”. She doesn’t just give emotional advice, but also considers the legal and social implications. Her “Broken Leg” point is absolutely true. People often leave one bad relationship and immediately find solace in another, which often turns out to be just a “rebound”. AskApril’s advice stops you from becoming a “sorry” and encourages you to take back control of your life.
I think, the job risk is real.
Having a relationship with a subordinate while in management is a cardinal sin in the eyes of HR. Adam is absolutely right to be afraid. Your priority focus right now should be on only two things: ending the divorce without any “drama” and preserving your job and reputation.