[Anonymous]

Im confused and really dont know what to do..
I am dating a guy who is younger than me by a year – and we both live in different countries. We get along perfectly well and trust one another. Its just one problem – we know we are not getting any where with this relationship and were just dating for the sake of it (and because were happy).. Lately I started to think about him alot and im starting to fall for him even more.. Im just scared to – coz I dont want to be a total wreck wen we come to break up.
We do see each other every couple of months..I know he loves me alot and I do to.. But its just confusing.. Another thing that bothers me is that I tend to get jealous alot but I dont tell him and keep quiet..
I try my best to please him as much as I can but I dont tend to get the response I want all the time.
Any suggestions on what to do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Trust is earned, and it’s hard to earn that trust when you’re both attractive, young, single people in different countries who only see each other once every few months. That trust problem is built into the long-distance international relationship.

If you want to be able to feel more trust with a man, I suggest you date someone you can see more regularly. That constant dating will give you a chance to get to know him better and more quickly and make a more informed decision about whether or not he’s trustworthy.

Your confusion is warranted, but unless you date someone weekly or more so, you’ll never lose that feeling. 😳

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