[LonersParadise]

Me & my now ex boyfriend have been together for what seems the longest two years of my life. He was my first real relationship. In the beginning he cheated on me, and I ended up forgiving him and moving on with our relationship, but just a few months ago he cheated on me again. Now we are broken up and I am really confused. We got together at a point where he was trying to get everything in his life together so we’ve been through many ups & downs and now I just feel kind of stuck in a corner on what to do next because he betrayed me, as far as leaving him for good or giving it another go, but I do love him dearly.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you get back together, he’ll probably cheat on you again. My advice is to find someone who doesn’t cheat on you. You’ll be a lot happier! 😉

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[LonersParadise]

Do you think him changing, trying to be this “super boyfriend,” apologizing & being all lovey dovey toward me is genuine or just a hoax to reel me back in so he could cheat again?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I wouldn’t call it a “hoax”, but I think that he’s either someone who cheats or there were problems in your relationship that you didn’t see and maybe still don’t, that made him want to be with someone else.

I don’t know how old the two of you are or what it is he’s been trying to make work in his own life, but if a guy is a cheater, you’d be best advised to choose someone who isn’t a cheater. 😉

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[LonersParadise]

That’s what I’ve been thinking as well which makes me more confused. He says it’s not me & I’m the only one he wants & how he wants to marry me & such, but to me the logic is you don’t do something like that to someone you love & are thinking of marrying.

Thanks. I agree with you. I know I deserve someone that doesn’t cheat.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If someone’s behavior doesn’t match their words, trust their actions. That’s a measure of who they are. Anyone can talk the talk, but walking the walk is a lot more important. 😉

[LonersParadise]

Thank you so much!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome.

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