Theres this guy i work with and hes so hard to read. I don’t know if he likes me anymore or not. One day he’ll be all nice and talk to me, the next not a word or glance. Its so hot and cold with him. A few months before all this hot and cold thing started…we both knew that we liked each other. He knew that I liked him alot and I knew that he really liked me, but we never actually dated or anything. The only time we hung out together was when he asked me to come over and watch a movie. After that I felt like he wanted ME to initiate something, like a date, but I never did, which I think here lies the problem. Most of the time now, its so awkward between us. We’ll be in the same room together and not say more than 5 words to each other. I just wish there was a way I could talk to him. Also, Im the shy type…so when I feel its awkward, it makes me not want to say anything. It just confuses me the most, when it seems like he actually wants to talk to me and other times ignore me. He will sometimes look at me for more than a couple seconds, not say anything, then look away. I’m not completely sure what that means. Is he looking at me cause I just happen to catch his eye or does it mean something more. We used to text outside of work. Mostly it was when he was drunk and wanted me to hangout with him. He would text me and say cute things like he wishes I was with him or that I shouldve hungout with him. Even though he was drunk, the next day he would bring up what he said the night before. I just want to know if there could be something elso going on with him, like he wishes things were different between us or maybe because I didn’t initiate anything, he thinks I dont like him like that and is keeping his feelings hidden? Or he feels embarrased that he was the first one to come out and say..”yeah i like you” and that our relationship didn’t progress? I don’t know what to think. Please help 🙂
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