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I’m pregnant and my fiance has never once been to one of my doctor appointments, but I’ve been to every one of his. This doctor appointment falls on the day after his appointment and because it’s early in the morning an three hours away, I have to miss his doctor’s appointment. He’s angry and says I can’t be relied upon for anything and says that I don’t care about him or that he’s sick. He says he “can’t” go without me there, so he’ll have to cancel it. I feel upset myself because I’ve NEVER missed one of his appointments, but he’s missed ALL of mine. Am I overreacting, or is he right to be angry? My doctor appointment is a sonogram at nine AM and his is at three PM. He’s missed mine because he can’t stand my family and in order to go, I have to stay with my dad, but he expects me to live with his mom, whom I despise and constantly insults me, three hours away from my hospital, with no transportation, no phone and no way of reaching out to my family. Hospitals where he lives are underpaid, under-educated, and most times misdiagnose people.

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