[AskApril Masini]

No, it’s not a no. It means she’d like you to ask her on Tuesday or Wednesday of next week. 😉

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”April Masini”]No, it’s not a no. It means she’d like you to ask her on Tuesday or Wednesday of next week. 😉[/quote]
Okay. So I should ask her again on Tuesday or Wednesday to remind her of Friday? Idk because some of my friends said she’s not interested because she didn’t give a definite yes.

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”Anonymous2121″][quote=”April Masini”]No, it’s not a no. It means she’d like you to ask her on Tuesday or Wednesday of next week. 😉[/quote]
Okay. So I should ask her again on Tuesday or Wednesday to remind her of Friday? Idk because some of my friends said she’s not interested because she didn’t give a definite yes.[/quote]
And that I should just move on to the next one.

[AskApril Masini]

She wrote that she wants you to ask her next week, so just ask her next week!

You’re overthinking this…. 😉

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”April Masini”]She wrote that she wants you to ask her next week, so just ask her next week!

You’re overthinking this…. 😉[/quote]

okay thanks. so you think I still have a high probability chance of her saying yes? even though she said maybe?

[AskApril Masini]

I’m not a statistician or a mathematician, so I don’t know how to calculate a probability of her saying yes — but I can tell you you have zero chance of her saying yes if you don’t ask her! 😉

[Ethan Morales]

You’ve got more of a shot than you think. You’re already connected, you’ve built comfort, and that’s half the battle. Just because she isn’t giving obvious flirt signals doesn’t mean she’s not interested some people are just subtle or guarded, especially if they’re used to being underestimated or overlooked.

Here’s the thing, man attraction isn’t just about looks or social scorecards. It’s about how someone feels around you. If she laughs with you, trusts you enough to talk about her life, and feels comfortable in your presence, that’s chemistry quiet chemistry, but it’s real.

Don’t overthink the “league” thing. It’s a mental trap. People remember how you make them feel, not how symmetrical your jawline is. If you ask her out with a relaxed, confident tone like,

“Hey, I’ve really enjoyed hanging out with you. Want to grab a coffee or see that new movie this weekend?” it’ll land naturally.

Keep it simple. Don’t sell it too hard, don’t self-deprecate. Just ask like you’d ask a friend you enjoy spending time with because that’s what she is right now, and that’s where most good things start.

If she says yes, great. If not, you walk away with confidence because you had the guts to try and that’s something most people never do.

[Val Unfiltered💋]

babe… she’s not “out of your league,” that’s just fear dressed up as math. 😏 you vibe, you talk easy, you make her laugh, that’s your green light. what are you waiting for?? just shoot your shot.✨

[Marcus king]

Man, stop putting her on a pedestal. She’s human, not some prize you gotta qualify for. You vibe, you talk, you laugh, that’s enough to see where it goes.

Ask her out simple and confident. If she says no, cool. If she says yes, even better. Either way, you’ll know instead of wondering.

[PassionSeeker]

She’s probably not used to direct romantic approaches especially if she’s shy, has few close friends at school, or maybe just hasn’t thought of you “that way” yet.
By calling it a date, you’ve made your intentions clear and she’s now processing that shift from “friendly classmate” to “potential romantic interest.” That can take a moment for someone to adjust to.

[Tara]

You’re overanalyzing this like a science project instead of acting like a man who knows what he wants. All that talk about “she’s a 9 and I’m a 6 or 7” that’s insecurity dressed up as humility. Attraction isn’t a math equation; it’s confidence, timing, and clarity.

The truth is you won’t know if you have a chance until you actually take one. Right now, you’re just orbiting her safe, polite, non-threatening which is exactly why she hasn’t looked at you that way. You’re the “nice classmate,” not the guy who sparks anything.

Stop waiting for “signs.” Interest is built through action. You talk easily? Good. Then ask her out, clean and simple. Not for coffee “to study.” For an actual date. If she says no, you move on dignity intact.

[Sally]

When a girl seems way out of your league, it’s easy to talk yourself into believing you don’t have a shot, but honestly… she sounds like someone who’s just a little lonely and trying to get through school the best she can. And the fact that she laughs with you, studies with you, and talks easily with you that’s not nothing. A lot of guys never even get that far.

The “no signs” thing doesn’t really mean much. Some girls just don’t flirt unless they feel safe first. And she clearly feels comfortable around you. That’s a good start.

If you like her, ask her out in a simple, low-pressure way. Coffee, a walk, whatever feels normal. Don’t make it a big moment. Just see if she leans in. That’ll tell you more than all this guessing

[Natalie Noah]

It sounds like you genuinely enjoy her company and notice a lot of things you have in common, which is always a good foundation. Shared interests, mutual support in class, and the ability to talk comfortably are all positive signs of a connection, even if it hasn’t turned romantic yet. But what stands out is your focus on her “attractiveness” and your perception of social and economic differences. Those things can make us doubt ourselves, but they don’t necessarily define whether someone could genuinely connect with us. Attraction and chemistry aren’t always about looks or status, they’re about personality, compatibility, and the way two people make each other feel.

At the same time, you’re noticing that she hasn’t shown clear romantic interest, and that’s important to respect. Laughing at jokes and casual friendliness can sometimes just be friendliness, and it’s not necessarily a signal that she wants more. But here’s the thing, you don’t need to wait for a perfect “sign” if you feel a genuine connection and want to see where things could go. Asking her out doesn’t have to be a huge, high-pressure situation, it can be simple and low-stakes, like grabbing coffee or studying together outside of class. It’s about testing the waters, not proving anything. The key is approaching it with confidence and honesty, without overthinking “leagues” or comparisons because those are just stories we tell ourselves. If it feels right, you can ask her in a way that’s kind, straightforward, and curious to see if there’s mutual interest.

[KeishaMartin]

This exchange is deliciously awkward in the way real attraction often is nervous energy, overthinking, confidence wobbling right at the edge of desire. What he’s actually battling isn’t her interest, it’s his own insecurity dressed up as “probability.” She didn’t shut the door; she flirted with timing. The smiles, the “maybe,” the willingness to keep the door cracked that’s not rejection, that’s curiosity warming up. Attraction doesn’t always purr right away; sometimes it stretches, watches, and waits to see if you’ll hold your ground without collapsing into self-doubt. The bold move here isn’t asking again. It’s asking again without apology.

And let’s give credit where it’s due: April Masini’s guidance is sharp, grounded, and quietly seductive in its confidence. She cuts straight through the noise and reminds him that desire isn’t math, it’s motion. You don’t calculate chemistry, you create it by showing up. Her advice doesn’t inflate egos or coddle fear; it nudges people into courage, which is always attractive. That’s why her voice works, it teaches you how to stop asking “am I enough?” and start acting like you already are.

Happy New Year, 2026, may the parties be loud, the countdown kisses bold, and the courage stronger than the fear.
Happy New Year, 2026, new beginnings, champagne confidence, and finally going after what you want.

Happy New Year, 2026.

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