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    Prettydope
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    So I’m going to London in August and I wanted to meet people to hang out. I got on POF to do so. I started talking to this guy, things were going well so we began texting via Whatsapp. It’s been 2 months of us talking everyday. We would send massively long messages from the time we wake up until we go to bed. We have planned to hang out while I’m there and I’m even staying an extra 5 days just so ill be around for his birthday and we can have more time together(At his request). We’ve made plans for him to come here for a roadtrip down Route 66 although, no dates set. Well about two weeks ago, he told me how he’s never been so excited to hang out with anyone and how I’m probably the best person he’s ever talked to and asked me not to get married and ruin our adventures. A few days later he was traveling and we didn’t talk for a day. Ever since his messages have been shorter and it has taken him longer to reply (around 30-45minutes sometimes). I know he’s been extra busy at work but I can see that he is online. I’ve mention our plans and he agrees that they’re still on. I’m worried that he has met someone. He also deleted his POF account. We still text everyday and he’s usually the one to initiate it. I know we live in different countries but I’m really starting to like him. Does anyone have any input? Am I worried for no reason? 😳

    #26043
    AskApril Masini
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    How old are you both?

    #24170
    Prettydope
    Member #198,305

    I’m 25 and he is 26.

    #24310
    AskApril Masini
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    [quote]Am I worried for no reason? [/quote]

    No. You’re worried because you have good reason to believe that he’s met someone else. He’s spending less energy on you, which usually indicates a loss of interest. He also met you online, and you have to understand that when guys meet you online (especially when the entire relationship has been conducted online), they’re usually meeting other women online, too. And…. you should be, as well. 😉 Putting all your eggs in one basket — in the early stages of dating — isn’t a good idea because it’s pretty normal that things may not work out. Keep your perspective. This is a guy you haven’t met in person once, and he seems to be interested elsewhere as well. Keep your options open so you don’t get disappointed if this doesn’t work out — and if it does, then that would be great! 😉

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