[Miserable]

I started going out with this guy about a six months ago and we broke up a month later. We met at my workplace when their company came to do business with us.

After breaking up he kept begging me to come back to him claiming to love me and i was tempted to go back. Its been a month now since we got back together. I love him and was willing to give him a chance but the way he has been acting lately is of major concern. The problem is we stay in different towns and he does not call me everyday and rarely comes to visit. At times i end up being the only one who is calling and never get my calls back. At the same time if i ask him why he complains he is busy and at times says he does not have airtime and asks me to call him.

At the same time if i tell him that we should end things he complains and says am making noise since the relationship is just starting. We have never had sex and i made it clear to him that we won’t have any till we are in a commited relationship.

For the past four days i have decided to leave him alone and right now we are not communicating but i know he is going to come back and still claim to be my boyfriend. What should i do this is the same issue that had made us to break up at first? I am afraid of getting hurt and being used.

[Ask April Masini]

You need to read my book, Think & Date Like A Man, that you can download for $15.95 right here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. This book will help you a lot because you’re a woman who needs to know how to get a guy and keep him! 😀

It’s a quick read, so do buy and read it and let me know what you think. And in the meantime, [b]stop chasing him![/b] If he wants to date you, he’ll ask you out. If at that time you want to go, you say yes or no. It’s really simple. You’re jumping the gun with your question of his love for you. You’ve only dated for two months in total, and they weren’t two months in a row. It’s too soon for either one of you to know if you love each other — and you’re presuming a relationship that normally wouldn’t be developed very far at this point.

I hope that helps! 😀

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