[Anonymous]

So I use to work with this guy a few months back, he left the company and works close by… and we go to the same college… we run into eachother a few times a week. So recently I heard from his old work partner that he use to mention that he ” wanted ” me..I saw him on the first day of school and he came up to me and gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek.. said he had to run but we have to catch up!
The next day i saw him he said i should take the same class he is ( we are taking the same subject, just different teachers) he said i should see if she would add me.. i told yeah i would check.. and before he left he said I really miss hearing your voice on the weekends( i am a dispatcher for a ambulance company and he is an EMT and we worked the same shifts) and THEN today I saw him and he compleatly avoided me…
I have always thought he was a sweet guy. By the way he is 35(sinlge no kids) and I am 22 (single no kids) how should i deal with this situation?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you like a guy, let him know you like him by flirting with him — but don’t give him too much of your time. You don’t want him to think you’re desperate, and you do want him to think that you’re a big prize he should go after. Check out my book, Think & Date Like A Man, that you can download here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. This book will give you EVERY piece of advice you need for showing this guy that you’re datable, and how to get him and keep him.

Don’t chase this guy — that would be a mistake. You have to let him work on his timetable, but in the meantime, read the book, follow the tips and advice, and I bet that if you do, you’ll be dating him before long. 🙂

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