[caligirl123]

My name is amanda,my boyfriends name is joey and his now ex gf’s name is ashley

   I met joey on this online website and he is 17 and i am 15. I live in new mexico and he lives in Nevada. We exchanged numbers and we text and talk on the phone to keep in touch.
   
Last november he asked me out and we began dating. We never really kept in touch on a regular basis though. 4 Months later in march we were texting i called him the wrong name and he accused me of cheating and broke up with me. 

One week later we got back together but still didn’t keep in touch very much. Months later In august he confessed to me that he had been cheating on me since
march with his female friend ashley. We broke up again and remained friends and he stayed with ashley.
One day In september he cheated on ashley with me. He demanded nudes,made me have phone sex with him and told me he still loved me. I started crying because i felt really bad that he was cheating on her and i didnt want her to get hurt.

I ended up telling her what he did and she gave him a second chance and they stayed together for about a week after that and then he broke up with her and begged for me back. So i took him back and we are happily together and he doesnt talk to ashley anymore but i have a few questions..
1) Do you think he really loves me? 
2) Do you think we will last & do you think he will cheat again?
3)Do you think i was right for taking him back? 

[April Masini, your AskApril]

First of all, you’re 15 and you’re old enough to say no if you don’t want to do something. It’s not fair for you to say that he made you have phone sex. If you don’t want to (and I think you’re too young for this), then just say no. If you don’t learn to say it now, you’re going to have even more trouble saying it when the risk is even higher than just having phone sex when you don’t want to. So practice!

Second of all, I don’t think he loves you. He’s a 17 year old boy who lives in another state, and I’m guessing that you’ve never even been on a real date with him. 😕 He’s interested in sex and that’s why he pressed you for naked photos and phone sex. Because of that, I don’t think you’ll last as a couple, and I think he’ll do the same thing he has done, over and over again, because he can. When women accept bad behavior, guys keep doing it. And both you and Ashley are allowing him to behave the way he did. So he will.

And lastly, no, I don’t think you should have taken him back, but we all learn on our own clocks and our own journeys.

My advice for the future is to learn to say no, don’t do things you’re not ready to do, and stay away from people who cheat — it’s not a good sign of character. 😉

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[caligirl123]

Ok thank you april (: also we have a mutual friend named jessica and jessica told me he said “idk why im with amanda”..that kind of made me mad that he doesn’t know why hes with me :/ he has also told me he was a bad guy and that i can do better but i dont want to believe him.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Believe him.

[caligirl123]

Ok ill try to but i just really love him so its hard..i hope him and i last for a long time though.

[anniesmith018]

Best of luck, i think you can do it..

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You can definitely do it, and yes, relationships and finding love can be hard, but once you know what’s right for you, you’ll focus on that, and when someone doesn’t have compatible goals or values, you need to let go and not waste your time or theirs. 😉

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