"April Masini answers questions no one else can and tells you the truth that no one else will."

Does he still care?

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    Angie
    Member #373,861

    Hi April

    It has been almost 2 months as of today since I have been with the guy I have been with for three years. We ended on a bad note when I accused him of not being a friend in our last e-mail conversation, he responded back in a negative way. During the course of our friendship I had sent ugly e-mails and texts out of anger and emotions. I still have feelings for him. last Wednesday I saw him take open the door for another female at the facility where I work. In addition, I am not sure she even works at our facility.

    That same day on Wednesday, I sent him a text letting him know I saw the women get into his car. On friday of that same week he calls me out of the blue I must admit I was shock to receive the call (remember it has been a month since we last communicated and he did not call until I sent the text ) I was very nice during the conversation and did not mention the incident about the other female. During the conversation he simply asked me how I was doing and If I had ever had the item that needed to be fixed in my house fixed. (I had asked him to fix it two months ago)

    On Tuesday of this week I called him to say hi and again he asked how I was doing, and that he hopes I enjoy the rest of the day, and that he was glad to have me check on him. I know this is not a lot to go on, but does he seem interested? We also work at the same facility so I will see him from time to time.

    Angie

    #11242
    AskApril Masini
    Keymaster

    Sorry, he’s not interested in you as a girlfriend any more. If you hadn’t contacted him first he wouldn’t have called you in response. He didn’t ask you out. He just wanted to “check in” with you, and is probably going to try and remain friends. But that won’t work if you’re jealous of his dating other women or if you still have feelings for him. I think it would be a good idea for you not to contact him, and just move on.

    Good luck! 🙂

    #52458
    Luxurious Girl
    Member #382,749

    Right now, his actions show that he’s open to casual communication, but it doesn’t necessarily indicate romantic interest. Keep interactions friendly and light until you have more clarity.

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