It sounds, from your second post, that you’re feeling left out — not so much of sex, but of the intimacy that includes letting each other know about your sex life that’s together and apart (even if it’s solo). Every couple has it’s own measure of comfort in knowing about solo sex, so if you want to bring it up, my advice is to do so in a manner that’s jokingly inclusive — and not in a way that puts your husband on the defense, makes him feel ashamed, or creates more of a barrier in this intimacy. For instance, with a smile on your face, you can mention that there sure aren’t many of those pills left — and while you appreciate him giving you a break, you halfway hope he’s using them alone and not with someone else — and then laugh and be affectionate with him, so he knows you’re forging new ground here that initiates intimacy through honesty without shame. I know it’s trickier said than done, but you seem like you’re capable of this.
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