[danielboyle23]

I need some advice on what i should think recently my ex and started talking again been off and on talking for about a month but over the past week or so we have talked heavly the past three nights i talking has been alot on the phone and like she just moved out of her parents house shes 25 been there since march due to our house fire we had she had no where else to go basically we have been broken up for about 4 months now and like shes talking to me the way she would right b4 we got together we have been through alot and its obvious we love each other have plans to go to a concert this month and like i dont know where this is going with us she has told me she wants to be with me and wants us again and she tells me she misses me and that over the past several nights she has told me shes enjoying talking again also last night i mentioned to her that it feels like we are connecting again and her response was that we may be who knows and she says that it could be happening and that she doesnt want to read to much into it.. and last night she sent a pic of her and our dog together and was like arent we adorable.. i honestly dont know what to think about it and i have no idea where it is going im completly in love with her and i think she is still in love with me she does live about 70 miles from me and i have offered to come c her sometime and she says shes not ready which i can respect the concert we plan on going may or maynot happen.. she does talk to me when she can can i get some advice cause i honestly have no idea where this is going

[Ask April Masini]

It sounds like your girlfriend is reconsidering her own life and her relationship with you. I’m not sure how long the two of you were dating and living together, but if after your house fire where you were living together, she moved in with her parents instead of on to somewhere else with you, that’s a big flashing yellow light that she wanted to reconsider the relationship. I think she’s open to dating you, but understand that she’s taking it slow and she’s probably open to other men, too.

You didn’t write why the two of you broke up, which along with how long you’ve been together before the break up, would have been helpful to my advice. 🙁

But from what you have written it seems like you need to date her and win her over if you want to get back together. Since what you had been doing didn’t work out so well, my suggestion is to change your game plan. Buy and download my book called Date Out of Your League (since right now, she is out of your league!) at this link: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. This book will help you a lot with ways to get her to want you — which is exactly what you need to jump start this relationship.

Let me know if this helps and how things go.

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[danielboyle23]

we were together for about six months and i did live with her at her parents cause we both had to relocate we broke up over a few things things that i have fixed with her and we are going to that concert i mentioned next week she made sure she could go

[Ask April Masini]

Get the book I recommended, Date Out of Your League, [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url], and read it. If you follow the tips and advice, you’ll be able to win her over. I bet you can even read it between now and when you take her to the concert next week. I think it will help a lot.

Let me know if it does!

And join me on Facebook. Here’s that link: [url][/url].

[danielboyle23]

Dear April

i wanted to let you know how things went … they went amazing we had a blast and it felt like it used we decidedd that we were going to take things one day at a time and see where it takes us we are going to dinner and a movie tommorrow and i asked her can we make it a date and she said maybe one things for sure the spark that we had is still there and we both realized that there is still something there bewtween us we’re just gonna take it nice and slow thanks for the advice im in love with this woman and she knows and it makes her happy knowing that i do and that we can be close again

[Ask April Masini]

That’s great news! 🙂 Now, you have to keep the momentum going. I hope you’ll get Date Out of Your League, read it, and follow the advice I give in the book to seal your deal! Here’s the link for the book: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. 🙂

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