Dear Nice Guy:
Quit it! 😮 Just, quit being the nice guy!
If you [i]stop[/i] being the nice guy, you’ll see how much better your results with women will be. 🙂 You’ve read my articles on why nice guys finish last, so just don’t be one anymore. It doesn’t get you anywhere.
So, for starters:
Make yourself less available.
Find your confidence and flaunt it.
Be a little critical of a woman who’s interested in you.
Don’t call her right back — and don’t call her after a date — make her wait.
Don’t don’t return e-mails or texts right away — because you’re too busy being the stud-ly guy (instead of the nice guy who doesn’t get the girl)!
As for this girl you took out, who isn’t interested, what to do next is really easy. [b]Drop her![/b] ❗ Like a hot potato.
Why on earth would you chase someone who isn’t interested?? 😯 I mean, you know she’s not interested in you, so [b]don’t treat yourself like a doormat — and then complain that you get stepped on by girls[/b]. You don’t get bonus points for banging your head against a wall. If you chase after a woman who makes it clear she’s not interested, and you send flowers and you pay for lunch and you send cards, you’re not so much a nice guy, as a blind one! Sorry, but you’ve really got to wake up and smell the coffee. It’s not all about what you like. It’s about whether or not she likes you, too! Don’t waste your time.
In fact, you would really, really benefit from my book called Date Out of Your League, which I’ve written for men just like you. Here’s the link where you can purchase it: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url] It gives step by step advice to men on what women really want, and how to be that guy who gets the girl he thinks he can’t. You’ll love it. In fact, you’ll do very well with women if you read it.
Let me know how things go after you read the book and start implementing those tips and advice that will make you a winner with women. 😀
