[Anonymous]

Hello.

In a bit of a situation here. I/my family have recently bought a holiday apartment somewhere and I have taken a bit of a shine to the young female sales executive that showed us around. I only live about half an hour away from the apartment.

Havent really had an opportunity to talk to her yet but i am very inexperienced when it comes to this sort of thing. The main things that concern me are that I am not goin to have chance to see her around that much and i am worried that if that happens, i might have left it so late that she has managed to get herself a bf inside that time. I am working on the basis that she is single however this may not be the case.

What is the best thing i can do?

Thanks, J

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The best thing for you to do, is to ask her if she’s single, and then ask her if she’d like to go out with you! It’s that simple. 🙂

Of course, use your own style. Rather than just blurt out the questions, you can call her and tell her how nice it was having her sell you your apartment. She’ll thank you, profusely, and then you can tell her that it was specifically nice that she was the one doing the selling, and if you happened to be lucky enough to find out that she was single and available, you’d love to invite her to dinner. That leaves the ball in her court, and she’ll either tell you then that she’s married, in a relationship or (DING! DING! DING!) single and available and would love to have dinner with you.
If that’s the case, tell her, great, and make a date for the following week or weekend.

That’s just a model you can use, but basically, all you have to do is get her phone number, call her, and find out if she’s available.

Hope that helps! 😀

[Alison Feby]

The only real way to know is to ask—waiting and guessing just creates more anxiety. A simple, respectful invitation puts everything in the open and lets her decide without pressure.

[Lidya]

AskApril is right, you shouldn’t be flippant and just ask her directly if she’s single and would like to go on a date.
I think you should first contact him under a professional pretext and then see how friendly her response is.
You shouldn’t waste your time, but rather let her know as soon as possible that you are interested in her.

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