dear reader,
I met this girl at a bar at first i thought it would just be a one night thing but we ended up having feelings for each other weve been talking for about 5-6 months and i really have strong feelings her. the problem is that she says shes not ready to commit becuase she doesnt really have time for a boyfriend but at the same time she treats me like one. shes finishing university and according to her becuase of this she wont make me happy becuase shes always busy. I think that shes just using school as an exsuse and i feel like im really wasting my time. im tired of having diffrent girls every weekend and i know im ready to settle down. Shes always on my mind and i want to make her mine. but like i said i feel like im wasting my time should i forget about her, keep her on the side or move on, or do you have better advice… ❓
If you really want a traditional girlfriend, and this woman you met in a bar says she doesn’t want to be that for you, then find a woman who does! Don’t let laziness stand in the way of what you want. Keep your goal in mind, and date smart. Dating isn’t easy and it’s time consuming, but the payoff is huge, so stick with it. This girl you’re asking about isn’t Ms. Right — but there is one out there for you.
