[Confusedteen]

Hi April,

I’ve been dating this girl fir along time and I thought I knew everything about her. Well a month ago I was snooping cause I figured she was hiding something and I found that she has a whole second life. She’s bi sexual has this myspace where she meets girls and has “girlfriends” but she never met them. And she tells me all the time I’m the one for her. But how could I believe her when she’s cheating on me? We are deeply in love and I don’t wanna break it off, plus I can’t talk to her about it cause I’m not even suppose to know. What should I do?

[AskApril Masini]

You have to tell her the truth — that you found out that she’s lying to you and cheating on you. Then, you have to understand that your instincts are correct: You CAN’T trust someone who lies and cheats. If you still want to date her, understand that you’re choosing to date someone who lies and cheats and you should expect more of the same. 🙁

I know you said that you don’t want to break up with her, but my advice is to do exactly that. You’ll never have true love, real intimacy, or a stability on which to build a relationship if you date a liar. 😳

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