Wow! You’ve got quite a few questions! So first, I’m going to recommend you buy and read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], a book that’s got EVERYTHING you need in it — and a lot more than I can tell you here on this forum, so I hope you’ll buy it and read it. 😀
Briefly, my advice is to have one drink on the first date. You want to enjoy yourself, but as you put it, not get sloppy. You also want to get to know him and if you’re more alert, you’re going to learn more about him. I know you have an attraction to him, but now you get to know what’s behind that attraction on the date! 😉
Greeting him has a lot to do with how you normally conduct greetings and how long you’ve known him. Since you wrote that you’ve been attracted for a long time, my guess is that it would be nice to greet him with a big smile. Let him want more. 😎
Great conversation topics for a first date can be about what you’re going to be doing that evening — the movie, the restaurant, the bowling alley — or how his day was. You can tell him how much you like his car, if you’re into cars, or ask him if it was a long drive, which can segue into where he lives….. get the gist? 🙂
As for a goodnight kiss…. let HIM guide you on this one. Do NOT make the first move. If you do, you’ve taken away his opportunity to do so, and guys always want to be the ones to make the first move. If and when he makes the first move also tells you a lot about him.
I hope you have a great first date. 😀
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