[April_Clayton_10]

First of all, I would like to start off with my fianc

[AskApril Masini]

I’m going to cut to the chase and I’m going to be very blunt, because you need to WAKE UP!

You said, “My problem is that I cannot get over what happened.”

Well, you shouldn’t get over it!

What you should do is ask yourself why you want to be with someone who is a chronic, flagrant liar and perpetual cheat. Why on earth would you think that he would not do the exact same thing to you as he did to all of these other women?

— Oh wait, he did!!! —

Frankly, you are either delusional or you are a masochist.

You know exactly who and what this guy is. Acknowledge and accept it!
You say, “I want to believe him but it is so hard.”

Oh, you think?!!

You say, “I am so scared that he is going to do the same thing to me that he has done to ever other girl.”

NEWS BULLETIN: He already has!

[PassionSeeker]

I understand your frustration and hurt, but let me be clear: It’s not about just “getting over it.” It’s about acknowledging the reality of the situation and what you truly deserve. You don’t have to keep holding onto someone who has repeatedly shown they can’t be trusted. I know it’s hard trust me, I get it. But why are you settling for someone who has shown time and again that they don’t value you or the relationship?

It’s tough to face the truth, but sometimes that’s what we need to do for our own well-being. You don’t have to keep trying to make excuses for someone who doesn’t show up for you. You deserve better, and it’s okay to walk away from this toxic cycle.

So, think long and hard about whether you want to continue letting someone like this back into your life, especially when you already know the outcome. If you want real love, loyalty, and faithfulness, it’s time to focus on what that looks like, not hold onto what you’ve already learned won’t give it to you.

Take care of yourself, and don’t be afraid to choose you first.

[Sally]

April’s response is 🔥 but now I’m dying to know what was the full question? It sounds intense. Did it get deleted or was it edited out? I feel like I missed the part that started it all.

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