Question.
So I have been dating my lovely GF for about 5 months now. She is a very attractive model and has been modeling since about a year before we were together. She started doing some implied nude and nude modeling about a month or 2 before we got together. It is all very professional artistic stuff. Well for about the past 2 months she has been taking some more proactive pictures as a portfolio for playboy. She was asked by her main photographer if she was interested it would be a great opportunity and they had shown some interest.
At first it really didnt bother me much but recently the nude modeling has really started to bother me and its not really something I can accept anymore. We live together and we are pretty serious, she is the most amazing girl I have ever met. The more serious our relationship gets the more I dislike it though. It is not something I morally believe to be right, its definitely not something I would look for in a significant other and I would never want my gf, wife, daughter, sister or mother doing. Most of my friends know about it and I get shit from them about it all the time.
My main concern about it is that I would not want later down the road to have children with her and them to find out or see them, or there friends or friends parents to find out or see them. The shit they would have to put up with for all of their school age days would be ridiculous.
Would it be wrong of me to basically explain to her that it is really bothering me and not something I am a fan of anymore and in the end I wouldn’t be able to get serious with her if this continues? What would be the best way about bringing this up. She has already told me it bothers her and she isn’t a huge fan of it but the money is pretty good. I had told her before it really didn’t bother me all that much and she has stated multiple times that if I didnt like the idea of or her doing playboy she wouldn’t.
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