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I have a long distance relationship with her. I met her on fb . she said she wants to marry me . But doesn’t update her relationship status on her fb .Her profile still says ” single”. She gets really jealous though when I talk to other girls and tries to tell them that i am taken. Whenever she sees another girl hitting on me then she comments on my fb pics “are u cheating on me “. She asked for my fb pass once because she was suspicious that i was cheating .She even mentions in fb groups that she is my girlfriend. When I asked her two weeks later after i met her on fb she said she can’t update her relationship status or even hide that she is single on her fb because I haven’t gone out on a date with her in real. She has introduced me to her friends and classmates but I haven’t talked to her family yet even after almost 4 months. When I asked her again after 3 three months since I met her, she said she talked to her parents about me and her parents don’t allow that is why she didn’t update her relationship status. I forgot to ask her to hide her single relationship status this time though. My confusion is that even if her parents didn’t allow she could still have hidden her single relationship status on fb. Is she not ready for a relationship yet or is she seeing other people.
What should I do . break it off with her or continue as it is or ask her again to either hide or update her relationship status.When I had a fight with her on something and cut her loose and blocked her recently, she was crying for hours and even infront of friends in real and on phone. She does has some feelings for me but I don’t understand why does she not update her relationship status yet.

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Fill me in a little bit first, so I can give you better advice: How old are you both? Also, have you met in person yet, and if not, are you planning to, and when?
I’ll look out for your response and answer you further. 😀

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[quote=”April Masini”]Fill me in a little bit first, so I can give you better advice: How old are you both? Also, have you met in person yet, and if not, are you planning to, and when?
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I am 28 . She is 17. We want to get married when she is at least 18. I haven’t met her in person yet but she wants to meet me as soon as possible. I live in another country so I have to take care of some things first before meeting her. It will take some time. She hasn’t talked to me about meeting her parents yet and i am not sure even if she wants me to meet them. I don’t think she minds if I visit her home though where her parents also live.

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Thank you for the updated information — that really helps a lot to give a clearer picture of what’s going on.

This young woman you’re involved with online is actually correct not to update her relationship status because you haven’t dated. She doesn’t know you except as a man she met online, and that does make a difference in a relationship status. For now, you’re both single and you should really BE single — including your online social media status.

As for her emotions, she’s a 17 year old teenager — and, she’s still a child. Sometimes they look and act like adults, but they’re not. And, they tend to be hormonal. 😉 If she’s fantasizing about love, romance and marriage with a man she met on the internet, that’s understandable. Many young girls do this as they grow up. You shouldn’t take it too seriously that she think she wants to get married because after all, she’s just a young woman who’s probably in high school. I’m not a person who generally harps on age differences, but because she’s a teenager and you’re a grown man, you’ve got a lot of life experience that she doesn’t have, and that experience gap is more important than the age gap. If you were dating in person, you’d probably be picking her up from school or after school activities like cheerleading practice or debate club meetings. This would make the reality of your experience differences, more viable. The internet and no dating, tends to make it easier to fantasize her as older than she is.

My general advice when there’s online, long distance dating, is always to accept that the internet is a wonderful tool for meeting people, but if there isn’t a date within three months of meeting online, to move on. There are wonderful marriages that result from online, long distance relationship meetings, but there are also many people who use the internet as a place to escape reality and avoid personal problems because the internet allows a separation that in person dating doesn’t, and that distance keeps people from getting to know each other well.

Also, it’s way too soon for anyone to meet parents, because there hasn’t been a date yet. If you want to ask permission to date their 17 year old, you can contact them yourself. Otherwise, the rule of thumb I advise for any dating is that you should use the first three months of dating (in person) to decide if you want to continue seeing that person. The second three months should be used to decide if you want to be monogamous. After that, is a good time to meet the parents. Before that is jumping the gun. 😉

I hope that helps.

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[quote=”April Masini”]Thank you for the updated information — that really helps a lot to give a clearer picture of what’s going on.

This young woman you’re involved with online is actually correct not to update her relationship status because you haven’t dated. She doesn’t know you except as a man she met online, and that does make a difference in a relationship status. For now, you’re both single and you should really BE single — including your online social media status.

As for her emotions, she’s a 17 year old teenager — and, she’s still a child. Sometimes they look and act like adults, but they’re not. And, they tend to be hormonal. 😉 If she’s fantasizing about love, romance and marriage with a man she met on the internet, that’s understandable. Many young girls do this as they grow up. You shouldn’t take it too seriously that she think she wants to get married because after all, she’s just a young woman who’s probably in high school. I’m not a person who generally harps on age differences, but because she’s a teenager and you’re a grown man, you’ve got a lot of life experience that she doesn’t have, and that experience gap is more important than the age gap. If you were dating in person, you’d probably be picking her up from school or after school activities like cheerleading practice or debate club meetings. This would make the reality of your experience differences, more viable. The internet and no dating, tends to make it easier to fantasize her as older than she is.

My general advice when there’s online, long distance dating, is always to accept that the internet is a wonderful tool for meeting people, but if there isn’t a date within three months of meeting online, to move on. There are wonderful marriages that result from online, long distance relationship meetings, but there are also many people who use the internet as a place to escape reality and avoid personal problems because the internet allows a separation that in person dating doesn’t, and that distance keeps people from getting to know each other well.

Also, it’s way too soon for anyone to meet parents, because there hasn’t been a date yet. If you want to ask permission to date their 17 year old, you can contact them yourself. Otherwise, the rule of thumb I advise for any dating is that you should use the first three months of dating (in person) to decide if you want to continue seeing that person. The second three months should be used to decide if you want to be monogamous. After that, is a good time to meet the parents. Before that is jumping the gun. 😉

I hope that helps.

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I understand now why she isn’t updating her relationship status. That is why after 2 weeks when I asked her to update her relationship status she said she declined for a reason and then I said ” If u don’t want to update Facebook relationship status, you can just make your single status invisible from everyone for the time being. I will also do the same.” she said ” since when are we dating . I swear you haven’t asked me out. You just assumed”. So basically she expects to date me in person first. Do u think she might be dating other men as well ? And if I found out about that what should I do then. Also a day or two ago I indirectly asked her what would be her parents reaction when I visit your home because they did not approve earlier. She understood that I wanted to meet her parents and was annoyed at that or may be she was annoyed because she understood that I wanted her to update her relationship status.
She said she wants to have kids with me . But as you said she is still young teen. I think you want to point out that she is still under 21. So she needs time to understand her feelings. I have heard that relationships in which men are older than their wives work as good as same age relationships. What is your opinion in my case.
You said about that rule of thumb of three months. So in my case would you advice me to break it off with her ? Because i haven’t date her( in person) yet even after four months of meeting online. She and i did want to meet but because I live in another country so I have to take care of some things here before meeting her. She is ready to meet me anytime.

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I’m glad you understand now, why she didn’t update her Facebook status after having met you online. 🙂

[quote]I understand now why she isn’t updating her relationship status. That is why after 2 weeks when I asked her to update her relationship status she said she declined for a reason and then I said ” If u don’t want to update Facebook relationship status, you can just make your single status invisible from everyone for the time being. I will also do the same.” she said ” since when are we dating . I swear you haven’t asked me out. You just assumed”. So basically she expects to date me in person first. Do u think she might be dating other men as well ? And if I found out about that what should I do then. [/quote]

Before I answer your question about whether she’s dating other men “as well” as you, let me help you understand what she’s thinking — the two of you are not dating. Dating means you’ve been to a movie together or had a meal together or taken a walk in the park and had coffee together. Dates are when two people spend time together in real life, to get to know each other. You haven’t dated. So when you ask if she’s dating other people “as well” as you, you’re trying to insinuate yourself into her life in a way that just hasn’t happened in reality. You met online and you have an online relationship, but you aren’t dating. I think it’s important for you to understand the difference between a dating relationship and an online relationship where you never meet or touch.

I always tell people to assume that during the first three months of dating someone, they’re dating other people, and so, too, should you. Dating is a way to get to know someone, and you can’t really decide if you want a commitment until you do get to know them. So giving yourself three months to decide if you want to continue seeing them is a great idea. That means that both of you should assume you’re dating others — especially since you don’t have a dating relationship with her. 😉 I know it’s a different way of looking at things, but if you’re willing to do so, you’ll have an easier time with her, and other relationships. 😀

And if you want to win her over, you’ll want her to be with you because she’s chosen you over other guys — not because you’ve restricted her. Same goes for any woman you’re involved with.

[quote]Also a day or two ago I indirectly asked her what would be her parents reaction when I visit your home because they did not approve earlier. She understood that I wanted to meet her parents and was annoyed at that or may be she was annoyed because she understood that I wanted her to update her relationship status.[/quote]

I think she’s probably just annoyed that you’re jumping the gun and pretending that the two of you are dating, when you’re not. And when you press her to achieve dating goals, when you haven’t had a first date, creates a rift because it implies the two of you are in different realities.

[quote]I have heard that relationships in which men are older than their wives work as good as same age relationships. What is your opinion in my case.[/quote]

I don’t think that age matters between consenting adults — but as I’ve said before, life experience can make a difference. There are wonderful relationships where there is a huge age difference, or none. But in this case, the bigger problem here is that you two haven’t dated, and you’re already thinking and talking seriously about marriage. 😕 Slow down, and see if you want to date her enough to actually do so, and if you do, and she does, too, and the two of you get along during a normal in real life dating scenario, then you can talk about marriage. 😉

[quote]You said about that rule of thumb of three months. So in my case would you advice me to break it off with her ? Because i haven’t date her( in person) yet even after four months of meeting online. She and i did want to meet but because I live in another country so I have to take care of some things here before meeting her. She is ready to meet me anytime.[/quote]

I think that when you embark on a long distance relationship without the means to take it to an in person relationship within three months, you’re not that serious about the relationship to begin with. People connect on the internet for all sorts of reasons — some want serious relationships, some want to avoid loneliness, some want to avoid fear of rejection. I think you chose a teenager because it can’t really lead to a real life relationship, and I think you haven’t dated her for some reason you haven’t talked about here. While you talk about being serious about marriage, your behavior doesn’t indicate that you are. I don’t think this girl you’re involved with online is serious about marriage or babies even though she’s talked about them with you.

If you really do want a real life relationship, my advice is to choose someone who is close by, who you can date, and who is ready for the same thing you are. 😉

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[quote=”April Masini”]I’m glad you understand now, why she didn’t update her Facebook status after having met you online. 🙂

[quote]I understand now why she isn’t updating her relationship status. That is why after 2 weeks when I asked her to update her relationship status she said she declined for a reason and then I said ” If u don’t want to update Facebook relationship status, you can just make your single status invisible from everyone for the time being. I will also do the same.” she said ” since when are we dating . I swear you haven’t asked me out. You just assumed”. So basically she expects to date me in person first. Do u think she might be dating other men as well ? And if I found out about that what should I do then. [/quote]

Before I answer your question about whether she’s dating other men “as well” as you, let me help you understand what she’s thinking — the two of you are not dating. Dating means you’ve been to a movie together or had a meal together or taken a walk in the park and had coffee together. Dates are when two people spend time together in real life, to get to know each other. You haven’t dated. So when you ask if she’s dating other people “as well” as you, you’re trying to insinuate yourself into her life in a way that just hasn’t happened in reality. You met online and you have an online relationship, but you aren’t dating. I think it’s important for you to understand the difference between a dating relationship and an online relationship where you never meet or touch.

I always tell people to assume that during the first three months of dating someone, they’re dating other people, and so, too, should you. Dating is a way to get to know someone, and you can’t really decide if you want a commitment until you do get to know them. So giving yourself three months to decide if you want to continue seeing them is a great idea. That means that both of you should assume you’re dating others — especially since you don’t have a dating relationship with her. 😉 I know it’s a different way of looking at things, but if you’re willing to do so, you’ll have an easier time with her, and other relationships. 😀

And if you want to win her over, you’ll want her to be with you because she’s chosen you over other guys — not because you’ve restricted her. Same goes for any woman you’re involved with.

[quote]Also a day or two ago I indirectly asked her what would be her parents reaction when I visit your home because they did not approve earlier. She understood that I wanted to meet her parents and was annoyed at that or may be she was annoyed because she understood that I wanted her to update her relationship status.[/quote]

I think she’s probably just annoyed that you’re jumping the gun and pretending that the two of you are dating, when you’re not. And when you press her to achieve dating goals, when you haven’t had a first date, creates a rift because it implies the two of you are in different realities.

[quote]I have heard that relationships in which men are older than their wives work as good as same age relationships. What is your opinion in my case.[/quote]

I don’t think that age matters between consenting adults — but as I’ve said before, life experience can make a difference. There are wonderful relationships where there is a huge age difference, or none. But in this case, the bigger problem here is that you two haven’t dated, and you’re already thinking and talking seriously about marriage. 😕 Slow down, and see if you want to date her enough to actually do so, and if you do, and she does, too, and the two of you get along during a normal in real life dating scenario, then you can talk about marriage. 😉

[quote]You said about that rule of thumb of three months. So in my case would you advice me to break it off with her ? Because i haven’t date her( in person) yet even after four months of meeting online. She and i did want to meet but because I live in another country so I have to take care of some things here before meeting her. She is ready to meet me anytime.[/quote]

I think that when you embark on a long distance relationship without the means to take it to an in person relationship within three months, you’re not that serious about the relationship to begin with. People connect on the internet for all sorts of reasons — some want serious relationships, some want to avoid loneliness, some want to avoid fear of rejection. I think you chose a teenager because it can’t really lead to a real life relationship, and I think you haven’t dated her for some reason you haven’t talked about here. While you talk about being serious about marriage, your behavior doesn’t indicate that you are. I don’t think this girl you’re involved with online is serious about marriage or babies even though she’s talked about them with you.

If you really do want a real life relationship, my advice is to choose someone who is close by, who you can date, and who is ready for the same thing you are. 😉

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Yes I appreciate your advice here. I am getting a much more clearer picture of the situation which is she does want to date me to give it a try and sees potential for serious stuff but hasn’t decided and/or ready for marriage yet. It may be possible she sees potential in others as well. So it will better for me to date her for three months at least before deciding about serious stuff.
As far as me seeing her. I live in another country. Visa restrictions are a problem . Also I have to take care of some financial matters here in my home country first.
You are right that in the current situation I should not be taking it negatively that she is seeing other men. Because I haven’t dated her in real yet. And also she does want to date me so I should not be that much worried. I should try to beat the competition instead.
Yes online relationships have problems. That is why it will be better for me to meet her in real first before long term decisions about me and her.
As far as about experience. What age do u consider “experienced ” enough for being able to take serious decisions?

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You got it! 😉

As for your question about age — I don’t think age matters between consenting adults (she’s not an adult at 17) as much as life experience does. Most teenagers don’t have life experience that includes, jobs, living on their own, juggling social life and finances and family, and that’s a big gap between the two of you. If you’re out in the world at almost 30, I would think anyone between 21 and 101 would have more in common with you than a teenager.

The biggest trick to dating, which is more important than age, is knowing yourself and what you want, as well as your deal breakers. 🙂 If you want to get married, then you should only date women who are also in the position to do so. Someone who’s had some dating experience is more likely to have made a clearer decision about wanting to marry than a teenager who has very little dating experience. If you know you don’t want to date anyone who’s a single parent because you don’t want to be a step-parenting, that’s something you can find out early on, and save yourself a lot of energy on. If you only want to date from a certain age group, then finding out someone’s age early on and only dating within the group you want, will save you energy. So basically, know yourself, and be clear on what you want and what your deal breakers are, and then date accordingly. 😉

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[quote=”April Masini”]You got it! 😉

As for your question about age — I don’t think age matters between consenting adults (she’s not an adult at 17) as much as life experience does. Most teenagers don’t have life experience that includes, jobs, living on their own, juggling social life and finances and family, and that’s a big gap between the two of you. If you’re out in the world at almost 30, I would think anyone between 21 and 101 would have more in common with you than a teenager.

The biggest trick to dating, which is more important than age, is knowing yourself and what you want, as well as your deal breakers. 🙂 If you want to get married, then you should only date women who are also in the position to do so. Someone who’s had some dating experience is more likely to have made a clearer decision about wanting to marry than a teenager who has very little dating experience. If you know you don’t want to date anyone who’s a single parent because you don’t want to be a step-parenting, that’s something you can find out early on, and save yourself a lot of energy on. If you only want to date from a certain age group, then finding out someone’s age early on and only dating within the group you want, will save you energy. So basically, know yourself, and be clear on what you want and what your deal breakers are, and then date accordingly. 😉

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So basically you want to say that two people who want to get married should have somewhat similar experience level. I have seen some 20 years old who have seen the world more than 26 years old. Does that mean it is the type and level of experience which is more important than age which is just a number.
This girl does seem to like me a lot and interested in me. I am using the word “like ” and not “love” here just to be a little careful. She would not cry for someone she had no feelings for and didnt care about. Girls usually cry for someone they like very much or may be love. But she is careful at the same time and is not letting her guard down because she has not met me in real life. I think that is what is stopping her from taking the big decisions. That is a sensible thing to do tbh . She is choosing me over many other guys and sees potential for serious stuff in me more than any other guy. I think she lied to me that she talked to her parents about me because i asked when did she talk and she kept silence. What is your opinion ?

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[quote]So basically you want to say that two people who want to get married should have somewhat similar experience level. I have seen some 20 years old who have seen the world more than 26 years old. Does that mean it is the type and level of experience which is more important than age which is just a number.[/quote]

Yes. 😀 Between consenting adults, age is just a number.

[quote]This girl does seem to like me a lot and interested in me. I am using the word “like ” and not “love” here just to be a little careful. She would not cry for someone she had no feelings for and didnt care about. Girls usually cry for someone they like very much or may be love. But she is careful at the same time and is not letting her guard down because she has not met me in real life. I think that is what is stopping her from taking the big decisions. That is a sensible thing to do tbh . She is choosing me over many other guys and sees potential for serious stuff in me more than any other guy. I think she lied to me that she talked to her parents about me because i asked when did she talk and she kept silence. What is your opinion ?[/quote]

My opinion is that she’s a teenager who met a man on the internet, and you’re imputing adult responsibilities and feelings to her because you want this to work out, even though you haven’t met her or made a date to do so. 🙁 I think you’re grasping for straws to try to get this to be a meaningful relationship, and it would be better if you moved on and dated someone who’s more compatible. 😉

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[quote=”April Masini”][quote]So basically you want to say that two people who want to get married should have somewhat similar experience level. I have seen some 20 years old who have seen the world more than 26 years old. Does that mean it is the type and level of experience which is more important than age which is just a number.[/quote]

Yes. 😀 Between consenting adults, age is just a number.

[quote]This girl does seem to like me a lot and interested in me. I am using the word “like ” and not “love” here just to be a little careful. She would not cry for someone she had no feelings for and didnt care about. Girls usually cry for someone they like very much or may be love. But she is careful at the same time and is not letting her guard down because she has not met me in real life. I think that is what is stopping her from taking the big decisions. That is a sensible thing to do tbh . She is choosing me over many other guys and sees potential for serious stuff in me more than any other guy. I think she lied to me that she talked to her parents about me because i asked when did she talk and she kept silence. What is your opinion ?[/quote]

My opinion is that she’s a teenager who met a man on the internet, and you’re imputing adult responsibilities and feelings to her because you want this to work out, even though you haven’t met her or made a date to do so. 🙁 I think you’re grasping for straws to try to get this to be a meaningful relationship, and it would be better if you moved on and dated someone who’s more compatible. 😉

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Oh i see. Yes you are right . It is too early for her to develop any strong feelings. She just wants to date me to give it a try and sees potential for serious stuff.

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[quote=”April Masini”][quote]So basically you want to say that two people who want to get married should have somewhat similar experience level. I have seen some 20 years old who have seen the world more than 26 years old. Does that mean it is the type and level of experience which is more important than age which is just a number.[/quote]

Yes. 😀 Between consenting adults, age is just a number.

[quote]This girl does seem to like me a lot and interested in me. I am using the word “like ” and not “love” here just to be a little careful. She would not cry for someone she had no feelings for and didnt care about. Girls usually cry for someone they like very much or may be love. But she is careful at the same time and is not letting her guard down because she has not met me in real life. I think that is what is stopping her from taking the big decisions. That is a sensible thing to do tbh . She is choosing me over many other guys and sees potential for serious stuff in me more than any other guy. I think she lied to me that she talked to her parents about me because i asked when did she talk and she kept silence. What is your opinion ?[/quote]

My opinion is that she’s a teenager who met a man on the internet, and you’re imputing adult responsibilities and feelings to her because you want this to work out, even though you haven’t met her or made a date to do so. 🙁 I think you’re grasping for straws to try to get this to be a meaningful relationship, and it would be better if you moved on and dated someone who’s more compatible. 😉

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Yes you are right that it is too early for her to develop any strong feelings. Also she is very young which makes her behaviour different from mature women. She just wants to date me to give it a try and sees potential for serious stuff.

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I think that’s right — but the bigger truth is that you won’t really know if she wants to date you until you actually ask her out on a date and she accepts, and goes. 😉

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[quote=”April Masini”]I think that’s right — but the bigger truth is that you won’t really know if she wants to date you until you actually ask her out on a date and she accepts, and goes. 😉

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Yes of course. What is her mood at that time when I ask her on an actual date is what matters. It doesn’t matter what she has earlier said because mood of girls keep changing and also would depend on whether she finds someone else who she thinks at that time is better. Also there is a difference between seeing a person online and interacting with them in real life. Her decision to go on an actual date would depend on what she sees in the person in real life for example personality. Unlike physical attractiveness which can be seen online . personality can only be seen when two people interact in real life.We have seen each other’s pics and talked on Skype and texted but that is different from real life.
I think this girl also has serious trust issues. Not many girls would ask for Facebook passwords of the guy. She even gets angry when I use the word “pretty ‘ for any other girl. Its like she has to be 100 percent sure that the guy is her before taking any decision. Even if I date her in real, she will never trust me.
In your view what is ideal age gap. For example can a 23 year old guy date a 17 yrs old girl .

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Again, I’m not hung up on age between consenting adults. A 17 year old is not a legal adult in America, and you may have legal problems depending on the country you’re dating in. But between adults, I don’t think age is as important as experience, goals and compatibility. You can date someone the same age as you are, but one of you wants marriage and one doesn’t. Or one wants kids and one doesn’t. You may be 23 and date a 40 year old woman who’s more compatible with you than a 23 year old woman, or you may date two 23 year old women and one is very compatible, while the other isn’t. 😉

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