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[quote=”April Masini”]Again, I’m not hung up on age between consenting adults. A 17 year old is not a legal adult in America, and you may have legal problems depending on the country you’re dating in. But between adults, I don’t think age is as important as experience, goals and compatibility. You can date someone the same age as you are, but one of you wants marriage and one doesn’t. Or one wants kids and one doesn’t. You may be 23 and date a 40 year old woman who’s more compatible with you than a 23 year old woman, or you may date two 23 year old women and one is very compatible, while the other isn’t. 😉

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OK. But my question is that why does she even say she is serious when she probably hasn’t yet decided and wants to date some men including me to decide who she wants for long term. When I asked why she doesnt update her relationship status , she said because parents object and when i ask her when did she talk to them she keeps silence. That makes her a habitual liar . Also recently I saw her commenting on a totally naked guy’s (married guy in his 60s) pic in a facebook group – the guy’s message to the group was ” like what you see do you want more” . and she commented ” yes i want more” . I was obviously angry and commented to show my anger. Other girls started calling her a cheat and were sympathetic with me and she commented that ” why are u hitting on my man(me”). She then messages me that she was just joking there didn’t really mean it. Another guy before this incident posted a naked pic of himself and asked group members what do u all think of me and she commented ” luv”. She doesn’t add as friend such guys that I know. I have seen her joking around with people by giving them sexy compliments in facebook groups just for joke and laughing with her friends later. She does joke around with her friends in a joking flirtatious way before too. This time its just gross to comment on a naked guy’s pic and asking for more even if it is in a joking way like she says- my opinion is that she is telling a lie. What do u think.
Now although she does want to date me to give it a try and sees potential for serious stuff .But the the bigger truth is that even before I even had my first date with her she is telling me one lie after another. That makes her a habitual liar and in my opinion enough to disqualify her (or anyone similar) as a potential person to marry. What’s your opinion ?

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[quote]OK. But my question is that why does she even say she is serious when she probably hasn’t yet decided and wants to date some men including me to decide who she wants for long term.[/quote]

Because she’s 17 years old. She’s not sure what she wants. Most 17 year olds don’t.

[quote]But the the bigger truth is that even before I even had my first date with her she is telling me one lie after another. That makes her a habitual liar and in my opinion enough to disqualify her (or anyone similar) as a potential person to marry. What’s your opinion ?[/quote]

She’s a teenage girl. You’re a grown man. You met her on the internet and haven’t had a single date with her, because she’s rejected you. My opinion, since you’ve asked, is that you stop obsessing over her and the fact that she’s rejected you. Stop following her on the internet. Time for you to move on, my friend. 😉

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[quote=”April Masini”][quote]OK. But my question is that why does she even say she is serious when she probably hasn’t yet decided and wants to date some men including me to decide who she wants for long term.[/quote]

Because she’s 17 years old. She’s not sure what she wants. Most 17 year olds don’t.

[quote]But the the bigger truth is that even before I even had my first date with her she is telling me one lie after another. That makes her a habitual liar and in my opinion enough to disqualify her (or anyone similar) as a potential person to marry. What’s your opinion ?[/quote]

She’s a teenage girl. You’re a grown man. You met her on the internet and haven’t had a single date with her, because she’s rejected you. My opinion, since you’ve asked, is that you stop obsessing over her and the fact that she’s rejected you. Stop following her on the internet. Time for you to move on, my friend. 😉

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Yes I have decided to leave her. But she never refused to go out on a date-only visa and some other problems in my home country prevented me to meet her and date her. I do want to date someone new in future too and want to understand women better -you said “rejected” what are the signs that a girl has rejected you ; Obvious and may be subtle signs ?

[Ask April Masini]

If you want more dating advice, which I think is a great idea, buy and read [b]Date Out of Your League[/b], a book I wrote for men who want to win with women. 🙂 Here’s the link: [url]http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/date-out-of-your-league-april-masini/1016394885?ean=9780974676302&itm=1&usri=9780974676302[/url]. I think it will help you a lot. 😀

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[quote=”April Masini”]If you want more dating advice, which I think is a great idea, buy and read [b]Date Out of Your League[/b], a book I wrote for men who want to win with women. 🙂 Here’s the link: [url]http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/date-out-of-your-league-april-masini/1016394885?ean=9780974676302&itm=1&usri=9780974676302[/url]. I think it will help you a lot. 😀

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OK I will read the book it looks interesting. But why did u say she rejected me when she never said that. You understand people better than me that is why I ask

[Ask April Masini]

I think you’re wasting your time focusing on a young woman you’ve never dated, who you’ve called your girlfriend in the title of this string of posts. There are three pages of questions and answers here about a 17 year old girl you never met in real life. Now that you’ve decided to move on, which I think is an EXCELLENT idea, you should do so. Read the book, find new women to date — date them in real life! — and [u]truly[/u] move on. 😀

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[PassionSeeker]

You’re putting a lot of emotional energy into someone you’ve never met in person, and that’s where the confusion is coming from. What you have right now isn’t a real relationship it’s an online connection built on imagination and emotion, not shared experiences. She’s 17, still figuring out who she is, and you’re an adult with very different responsibilities and expectations. That gap makes it nearly impossible to build something stable right now.

Her jealousy and requests for your password aren’t signs of love they’re signs of insecurity and immaturity. She can claim you publicly, yet avoid making any real commitment, and that imbalance leaves you frustrated. You’re not wrong for wanting honesty, but you’re trying to make something serious out of something that isn’t ready to be real.

If you genuinely want a long-term, healthy relationship, focus on women closer to your age and life stage someone you can actually meet, talk to, and build trust with in person. This isn’t that. It’s time to let it go with grace.

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