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Good man, but not one of his word. What to do

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    misspj90
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    Hey!!

    I am currently dating a guy and I would consider it a long distance relationship. He’s a great guy and he treats me well. He also is on his way to becoming a medical doctor so he I know is going to be a success. I think the big issue we have is that we live about 2 hours away from each other. And unfortunately other problems stem from that fact. He does not drive so there is some difficulty when it comes to seeing each other. What makes it even worse is that many times he says he will come see me it does not fall through. He has to take 2 trains to see me, he works, and he is preparing to start medical school in two weeks so I understand the great trial he has to go through to see me. And I have not complained, but now its starting to become excessive. I do drive so I am open to driving to see him, but he insists on him coming to me because when he starts school in a few weeks and he knows I will most likely coming to see him the majority of the time. Anywho, what I’m asking is how do I tell him that I’m tired of him saying he will do something that he doesn’t. It is starting to make me not believe in what he tells me, and I don’t want to feel that way anymore.

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    You have to just come out and say it. 😉 There isn’t a trick and there are no code words. But…. saying something doesn’t mean it’s going to force a correction. It sounds like he’s used to doing his own thing (not getting a driver’s license indicates he’s not interested in socializing with the same skills other people have and use).

    How long have the two of you been dating?

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